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Community ยท Guidelines

Rules that keep Level 1 and Level 2 interactions safe

No strangers, no public reach, and communication only through verified mutual links.

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Core rules (FRIEND OF A FRIEND-first)

  • Level 1 and Level 2 only; no public discovery.
  • Mutual links are always visible; no anonymous reach.
  • Consent-based interactions; opt-in, never coerced.
  • No scraping, mass outreach, or indirect discovery.

Breaking FRIEND OF A FRIEND boundaries can lead to warnings, limits, or removal.

Allowed vs. not allowed

Allowed
  • Requests and offers to Level 1/2 with clear intent
  • Respectful, relevant messages only
  • Verified businesses posting in their own tab
Not allowed
  • Public ads or cold outreach
  • Harassment, impersonation, or spam
  • Bypassing FRIEND OF A FRIEND limits via screenshots or forwards

Communication standards

  • Be clear about intent and urgency.
  • Use correct tags (Help, Offer, Emergency) to set expectations.
  • Stay respectful; disagreements do not excuse boundary breaking.

Reporting & enforcement

  • Report misuse directly from the card or profile.
  • Trust & Safety prioritizes Level 1 impacts first.
  • Local rules apply when stricter than global standards.

Escalations may include warnings, feature limits, or removal.